What should I know about dating a narcissist?

Answer by  carol (1241)

If you are dating a narcissist he or she is going to be more interested in himself and what you can do for him then he is in pleasing you. A narcissist always has to be number one and needs a lot of attention and care.

Answer by  mike50 (53)

A narcissist is usually less able to be a strong cohesive partner in a relationship. If you are a strong independent type, this may not be a problem. Nurturing a narcissistic personality often requires clear understanding of the advantages and high confidence in the partnership.

Answer by  S93 (524)

Dating a narcissist will most likely get on your nerves. If you like to give and give and not receive, it could be a good relationship. But, a self-centered individual rarely will think of anyone but themselves and will only think of their own interests. This usually spells trouble and a failed relationship.

Answer by  MzKitty (273)

First and foremost, it is not recommended. And if you know this in advance, proceed with extreme caution and get ready to apply all your patience to the task at hand. Be calm, and try to deflect theuir attention to other matters, and don't be needy yourself or it won't work.

Answer by  tface1000 (147)

Nearly everyone is a little narcissistic and concerned with self image to some degree, but a high level is VERY dysfunctional and indicates extreme selfishness and indifference to others.