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Question by  Jebjow (44)

My husband left me - how do I start over?

 
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Answer by  CarolynOsborne (2804)

At first, focus on getting through one day at a time while you grieve. Later, you will be able to think about the future. Focus on doing some new things and finding out more about who you are as a person. It's hard but you can get through this.

 
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Answer by  kayleen (128)

You start over by first realizing that you are better off without him and that there is better out there for you.

 
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Answer by  sherryk (621)

Rely on family for emotional support as well as find a support group similar to AA or NA; join a church or synagogue, etc, singles group, put the word out with friends that you are available for dating, get a new hobby or join a new club; exercise!

 
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Answer by  ruffy (1117)

I would have to say the first thing you would want to do is just start to date. Find a man that make you happy,and takes you places.

 
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Answer by  sassymom (47)

Move on. Busy yourself with something so you don't have to dwell much into it. Join groups that could help you cope up and enjoy being single again. Your have a world out there. Think positive.

 
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Answer by  Lorrie (4)

First, remember that you were your own person before him and you will be your own person after he is gone. You will need to take baby steps to rebuild your life. Maintain focus on where you want your life to go without having to rely on anyone else.

 
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