Is my girlfriend going to stop being a jerk?

Answer by  Brett (7986)

I believe that you allow people to treat you the way they do. I would speak to her about it, and if it doesn't end, I would suggest counselling. If she doesn't agree with that, and continues, I would look for another girlfriend. Sounds like you deserve better.

Answer by  wallaby78 (2293)

Take a deep breath and try journaling about the things that are bothering you about your girlfriend. Make a list of the worst ones and have a calm talk.

Answer by  answerqueen (564)

A lot of peoples actions are reactions to people around them and their environment. If you think she's being a jerk she's reacting to that. If you don't act like she's being a jerk, she'll likely play off you and no longer act like a jerk.

Answer by  LearnedtheHardWay (24)

Your girlfriend's "jerk"-like behavior is most likely a response to an emotional need. She is probably feeling either A) neglected or B) taken advantage of and the best way to solve this probelm is with an open and careful conversation.

Answer by  dblake (96)

Probably not. But your new girlfriend will be really nice, I swear. And hot.